(ed question)Should I move in with my gramma in british columbia?

I cant stay with my mom thats for sure. This is what my mom just said to me like 10 seconds ago after I came out to her, "You are me son! And no amount of surgery, therapy, or womens clothes will change that. Atleast not in my eyes." My gramma on the other hand actually KNEW i WAS ED When I was 6 she let me dress up like a girl whenever I visited her infact the first time I visited her as a male her neigbors didn't know who I was.